My weakness is my strength
October 10, 2008 by Blanca · Leave a Comment
In 2002 I had a severe car accident which made me stop in my tracks and literally couldn’t walk for 1 year. It was a huge wake up call, which eventually led to reflecting a lot and spending time alone purposefully without a relationship with a man for the past 4 years.
The process to create a new foundation and to recreate my life was not an easy one. It took a lot of trust. It took a lot of faith. It took a lot of letting go, along with some aggravation,uncertainties and anxieties that popped up. But I persisted because the insights that I was getting in my heart were coming in much too strong. Read more
Leap of Faith and taking Baby Steps
September 2, 2008 by Blanca · Leave a Comment
What if your destiny is nothing but taking small steps, led by a vision that you have initialized by a leap of faith in your hopes dreams and desires, and you are taken into a reality that becomes your destiny. For me, the word “destiny” or “fate” connotates sometimes something too big and therefore a sense of being unattainable. Read more
Who do you love more?
August 15, 2008 by Blanca · Leave a Comment
My son has asked me many times, “Who do you love more me or Sparky?” Sparky is our beautiful eight year old Labrador. We’ve had him since he was a puppy. Of course I always answered my son that I love him more than Sparky even though I adore Sparky. And then he would ask me a lot of times, “Who do you love more, me or you?” And to which I would always reply,”Well, I got to love me first so that I can
really love you.” Read more
Do 2 voids make a whole?
July 14, 2008 by Blanca · Leave a Comment
What happens when you are with someone who is wanting a relationship to fill a void vs. sharing because they are filled? How can you get to the point where you can be the latter? Is it possible? How can you know in the beginning of a relationship if it is the first - having someone to fill a void. I suppose that when you are doing the same(filling a void), then it would be hard to see. Do 2 voids fill up or better yet, how can 2 voids become filled? Read more
Divine Relationships Start with You
July 13, 2008 by Blanca · Leave a Comment
I was reading in the paper the other day that there are less divorces here in Miami compared to last year. One of the reasons accounted is because of the economy most people cannot afford to have two households. When equity was rising, you could cash out and buy something else. Right now, it’s not an option for most people. The article also states that it is possible that some couples may end up working it out. We have given up too easily in marriages. The marriage counseler says “I think we throw away our relationships too easily.”
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Mission Statement
July 8, 2008 by Blanca · Leave a Comment
My son was cleaning out his drawers last night and when I woke up this morning, he had left an orange paper with a green piece of index card sized attached to it. He had a religion project a couple of years ago maybe in 7th or 8th grade. I had totally forgotten about it. I wanted to share it, because it came at a perfect moment since I had wanted to write a post yesterday about spiritual growth and didn’t know how to start. Its a family mission statement. Here it is: Read more
Faith and Trust in a Higher Source
June 25, 2008 by Blanca · Leave a Comment
How am I going to create real estate deals in the next months sustain me in this critical time where I literally have hit bottom in my finances, like many realtors have. I know many have hit bottom because I see it in the listings I had. I know the personal stories of the people first hand. Read more
