by Blanca Stella on October 10, 2008
The severe car accident made me stop in my tracks and stopped me from walking for one year. It was a huge wake up call, which eventually led to reflecting a lot and spending time alone purposefully without a relationship with a man for the past 4 years. The process to create a new foundation [...]
by Blanca Stella on September 1, 2008
It’s approaching that 3 month stage of getting to know someone new in a relationship that has the potential to expand into something very deep and beautiful. But those vulnerabilities kick in as you are attempting to establish whether or not the relationship is going somewhere or not. At an older age where there has [...]
by maria on August 19, 2008
Have you ever been on a camping trip and needed to start a fire? Did you know that there is a specific way to ignite the fire so it is able to grow? On my first trip many years ago to the out doors, I thought it was just getting a bunch of logs together [...]
by Blanca Stella on August 15, 2008
My son has asked me many times, “Who do you love more me or Sparky?” Sparky is our beautiful eight year old Labrador. We’ve had him since he was a puppy. Of course I always answered my son that I love him more than Sparky even though I adore Sparky. And then he would ask me a lot of times, [...]
by Blanca Stella on July 14, 2008
What happens when you are with someone who is wanting a relationship to fill a void vs. sharing because they are filled? How can you get to the point where you can be the latter? Is it possible? How can you know in the beginning of a relationship if it is the first – having [...]
by Blanca Stella on July 13, 2008
I was reading in the paper the other day that there are less divorces here in Miami compared to last year. One of the reasons is because of the economy most people cannot afford to have two households. When equity was rising, you could cash out and buy something else. Right now, it’s not an [...]