by Blanca Stella on April 9, 2009
After going to the beach at Matheson Hammock on Monday, I went to a bridal shower for Alejandra. I got there about two hours late because I was not thinking of time while at the beach. Timelessness is a good thing especially when on vacation. Better late than never. One of my best friend’s was [...]
by Blanca Stella on September 25, 2008
For the past three weeks, I have done a catharsis in the way of writing letters to this man that I let go of. It was my way of understanding my feelings and emotions that I didn’t know had gone so deep. What has happened is that the writings are so much that I believe [...]
by Blanca Stella on September 11, 2008
For me, letting go of this short relationship that felt like a potential true partnership at this critical juncture of time meant that I had to make a choice. It was not whether I should meet another man. It was a choice of this relationship or pursue my dreams, the creativity and the part of me that I [...]
by Blanca Stella on September 9, 2008
One of the things that I saw a good friend go through in this torturous letting go of an eight year relationship was her constant questioning. What if it could have been this? What if it could have been that, and what do you think he’s thinking? What do you think he’s doing? Do you think [...]
by Blanca Stella on September 8, 2008
I have been writing these past days non stop some letters to myself which are addressed to my boyfriend. It is my way of letting go, writing letters. Its my way of releasing whatever range of emotions are going thru me instead of yakking my head off to my friends and driving them crazy. Here [...]
by Blanca Stella on September 5, 2008
As they say, there is a time and a season, and for me, the season of this relationship which seemed to be flourishing has taken a turn in the wind. It is not out of conflict, but simply what I sense out of fear of embracing what can be so grand and expanding, but in [...]