Spiritual Growth

Taking the Towel to the Beach

by Blanca Stella on April 5, 2009

You know the old saying, “I am throwing in the towel.”  Instead of doing this, I am going to take the towel to the beach this week. My son is on spring break and I also need a break very badly. I am exhausted by all the doing, doing, doing in these past six months to […]

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My Weakness is My Strength

by Blanca Stella on October 10, 2008

The  severe car accident  made me stop in my tracks and  stopped me from walking for one year. It was a huge wake up call, which eventually led to reflecting a lot and spending time alone purposefully without a relationship with a man for the past 4 years. The process to create a new foundation […]


Leap of Faith and Taking Baby Steps

by Blanca Stella on September 2, 2008

What if your destiny is nothing but taking small steps, led by a vision that you have initialized by a leap of faith in your hopes dreams and desires, and you are taken into a reality that becomes your destiny. For me, the word “destiny” or “fate” connotates sometimes something too big and therefore a […]


Who Do You Love More?

by Blanca Stella on August 15, 2008

My son has asked me many times, “Who do you love more me or Sparky?” Sparky is our beautiful eight year old Labrador.  We’ve had him since he was a puppy.  Of course I always answered my son  that I love him more than Sparky even though I adore Sparky.  And then he would ask me a lot of times, […]


Blanquita Day

by Blanca Stella on August 11, 2008

Here is the link of my friend’s Blog that explains Blanquita Day and the text here: Some of you may remember back in April when Blanca’s sister, Maria, declared Cinco de Mayo as “Blanquita Day.” She sent an email to that effect and Alina passed it on. From: Maria Angela Jacques Sent: Wednesday, April 30, 2008 […]


Do 2 Voids Make a Whole?

by Blanca Stella on July 14, 2008

What happens when you are with someone who is wanting a relationship to fill a void vs. sharing because they are filled? How can you get to the point where you  can be the latter? Is it possible? How can you know in the beginning of a relationship if it is the first – having […]