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  • Adjusting To My New Identity

    Sunris in Miami Beach
    Sunrise in Miami Beach

    The last few posts  have been titled: Letting Go Of My New Identity, Embracing My New Identity and now this one, Adjusting To My New Identity. But in reality, it’s not that I have a new identity. I have always been me, Blanca Stella Mejia.

    Because I have worked  mainly in one profession, it was excrutiatingly hard to let it go. My profession was more than just being a realtor. I owned my own business,  operated as the broker, and ran all the marketing, sales and administration. There were times that I had agents and assistants in  my office as well. Besides that, I handled projects that most Realtors don’t do.(See my resume for more details.)  That is what comes with the territory of being an entrepreneur.  (more…)

  • Burned Out, But Determined to Remake Myself

    This is a post from my sister, Maria.

    Change has come to America.

    This is the slogan of the platform of the new presidency and today I felt I had become part of this new energy. Today I did something totally different, a paradigm shift for me. As America is in the process of making this paradigm shift , I had decided to take the day off. Without even realizing nor planning it, it just happened

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    today, the day in which as a nation ,are all in the consciousness of entering a new era. I came to do this out of feeling totally burned out and exhausted from much stress past few months. The cause: ” Everyone else is more important than me”. I slept all morning, something I had not done in over 20 years. I realized it was something my body and mind were needing desperately but I had not

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  • Social Media & Embracing A New Identity

    Pizza Tweetup at Spris Coral Gables
    Pizza Tweetup at Spris Coral Gables

    In the last month of my shift in my new work, I have been attending different local networking events geared to technology. I have found them through my local twitter connections. One was a pizzatweetup created by @lapp.  Over 70 people attended to enjoy the face to face company of our online connections. There was no specific talk. It was simply to connect. That is  really what the whole Social Media is about.

    In the last weeks, I called a couple of my newfound techie twitter friends as I was trying to embrace my new job description. I am hired to do a job that really is not clearly defined. That is what was said in another meeting I went to this week.  No one is a real Social Media Expert because it is so new. It was at the Association for Women in Communiciations.(AWCS). (more…)

  • My Brother’s Project Has Meaning

    Dr. Ricardo Mejia, Dermatological & Hair Transplant Surgeon
    Dr. Ricardo Mejia, Dermatological & Hair Transplant Surgeon

    In the past few weeks, I have embraced my new work with excitement. I have been mainly focused on the projects that my brother wants me to organize. He is  a very talented Dermatological & Hair Transplant surgeon.  His practice is thriving and has a good staff in place to support all the services he offers.

    There are not that many Doctors who do both hair transplant and dermatology.  He was in need of someone to set up all the dermatology services he offers on a website since his current website  is only focused on hair transplants. He does Follicular Hair Transplantation. It is the same procedure  that  Dr. Robert Burnstein does, and who was featured on Oprah a few months ago. It uses ones own natural hair. Basically, if someone has had bad plugs, he can fix this. (more…)

  • Suspended and Safe in Mid Air

    Photo Courtesy of Associated Press Sears Tower Glass Balcony
    Photo Courtesy of Associated Press Sears Tower Glass Balcony

    I saw this article today titled: Sears Tower Unveils 103rd Floor Glass Balconies. It is a good visual for what I have been going through this year. If I had a visual of last year during my financial meltdown and dismantling of my real estate career, I would post a picture of the bottom of the ocean.

    Because of this blog, I simultaneously have maintained a higher vision where I wanted to be in my life while I maneuvered the crazy world related to my real estate work. Unfortunately, while I desperately hung on to dear life to create real estate deals, I almost sunk myself in the deep ocean of positioning myself as an REO realtor. 

    After all, in my mind, it was the real estate deals that would pay my bills while I continued pursuing my dreams that I imagined kind of like the girl sitting on this glass balcony. Here is a quote from the article:

    “It’s very scary, but at the same time it’s very cool,” said Chanti Lawrence of Atlanta, adding that she’s made her first step toward overcoming her fear of heights. (more…)

  • A Whirlwind in 10 Days

    Blanca Birthday with Family
    Blanca Birthday with Family

    Life never ceases to amaze me.  Since I have made a big emphasis on this blog to trust and let go in the midst of chaos, I am very conscious that I have to be walking this talk. A lot has happened since I announced the shedding of my realtor identity at the AWCS meeting 10 days ago.  In a nutshell, I got offered two  internet marketing consultant jobs, saved a turtle, got beautified with skin treatments, Farrah Faucett, EdMcMahon and Michael Jackson died, got a new puppy, celebrated my birthday for two days with my family and friends  and  got a referral commission I wasn’t expecting.

    Because the sun is shining and beckoning me to absorb the rays of this beautiful day, I am going to go out and continue enjoying my weekend with my son. And hopefully this week , I can update you on details of some of my stories. The new addition to the family is Maya. She is a mix of Chihuahua and Alaskan Malanut. It is a very odd combination. I took one look at her eyes and fell in love with her. She is a gift from my friend, Larue, also my plumber for 15 years.

    Also, another visible chryssalis is shaping it wings and will become a butterfly in about a week.